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Getting organized

So, having finished my first full week of unemployment, I'm feelin pretty good. Not the least because I am getting organized!! I expected to have a hard situtation made worse because I'd be down and depressed in response to it. I don't mean that I wanted to be depressed, just that I expected it. 

What helped hugely to get me on a good footing was the friend who spent nearly three hours last Sunday tackling my storage unit with me. I had accumulated so much stuff in my classroom (same problem I have at home, but that's another project I hope to begin managing this summer - a way of making unemployment work for me!). With fifteen or so hours to clear out the room and organize it for the custodians and for next year's teacher, there was little chance to sort-as-I-went, which I had hoped to do. Plus, the longer I was at school, the mroe sad and angry I felt. I came home very depressed on the last day of school, having spent a couple of hours in very hot weather, beginning to pack up. Realized that night that I needed to get out as quickly as possible.

With that in mind, and with limited hours to access the school anyway, the best I could manage was to load my stuff into bags and boxes and transport it to the storage unit for later sorting. In the process of moving, I did throw out and give away half dozen trash bags full of stuff, but took a ton more with me. As a result of this process, I had a storage unit so full I couldn't step inside the door. This was going to make it hard to begin the work of sorting and organizing all the stuff I had stored there. Along came my friend, someone who doesn't suffer from procrastination and disorganization. Her first reaction was to look at the unit and declare, "There's plenty of room in there!" and to dive in. At her direction, we emptied everything out of the unit in order to pack it back in more effectively - leaving a path in the center to allow for access. Wow! What a difference. In the process, my friend directed me to do at least a little sorting as we went, and she did some herself. To my delight, we were able to accomplish the goal she set. I didn't throw out much that first day, but we managed to organize what was there in a way that allows me to get at the stuff without assistance. (Does that make any sense ?) Altogether an empowering experience. I'm deeply grateful to my friend for her help.

More organizing updates to follow....

Published Friday, July 04, 2008 11:45 AM by Lesley
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# re: Getting organized

Wednesday, July 16, 2008 6:10 PM by Keri

Good job! I just went through the same thing. I just moved from a house to an apartment that is about a fourth the size.. I was forced to get rid of A LOT, but it felt good and it felt like I was getting a fresh start! Your friend reminds me of you, I actually enjoy helping friends get organized and sort through clutter... every time I'm home my parents always have some sort of organizing project for me.. I'm beginning to think it's not just coincidence :)

# re: Getting organized

Thursday, July 17, 2008 8:46 PM by MsP

I'm glad you have such a good friend to help you make sense out of what you looked at as "chaos". It helps a lot to have friends around when you are facing difficult situations in your life. Don't give up. You will find a job that is meant to be. Maybe this was just a "life test" to show you that you can handle disappointment better than you ever thought you could. :^)

# re: Getting organized

Friday, July 18, 2008 8:44 PM by Lesley

Congratulations on your successful move, Keri. A fresh start is a great feeling to have, and from the sounds of it, you've helped a lot of your friends and family to achieve that fresh start. I applaud you for your organizing skill and for the generosity to share it with others! I always feel so good after I've done organizing, but it's very hard for me to get started. Would love to hear how you get started.

# re: Getting organized

Friday, July 18, 2008 8:48 PM by Lesley

Thanks for your encouragement, Ms. P. I just heard this evening that I didn't make it to the next round of interviews for a job I interviewed for on Wednesday. I wasn't at all sure that I wanted to take the job, but would have preferred to be able to make that decision myself instead of having it made for me. Anyway, I guess I'll be getting some good practice at managing disappointment!

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